When men and women look for their life partner, they tend to decide who to pick from a list of criteria. I say that your criteria is old. You've outgrown it! You need to create a new list of characteristics, one that matches who you are now and where you want to be in 20, 30, 50 years. That is Visionary Dating.
Visionary Dating is not a list of tips or tools. It isn't a list of do's and don't's. I don't have tactics for you to "catch" the right guy or how to "guy up" to get the right girl. That kind of advice leads to only one result - a relationship built on a lie.
You already have what it takes to find your Life Partner. By being yourself and presenting yourself in the most honest way, you will find someone who is honestly interested in you and the life you want to live. That is Visionary Dating.
Here is the list of topics we will discuss on our calls together with a brief description of each:
VISIONARY DATING:
How to Find Your Perfect Match by Using Your Life Vision (and Still Being Yourself)
How to Find Your Perfect Match by Using Your Life Vision (and Still Being Yourself)
Being Honest about How Dating Has Been Going So Far:
In this section, we will review your dating history – “take stock” in how dating has been going for you – and begin our work on your Truth.
Being Yourself and Sharing Your Truth:
Your “Truth” is what you don’t want to tell a date about yourself, your personality. We will examine how this key component keeps you from finding your Perfect Match.
Deconstructing Your List:
Everyone has a list of characteristics they want in a mate. We will look at your current list and break it down so that you can see it is outdated and not in line with finding someone to love for the rest of your life.
Creating Your Life Vision:
Dating is meant to find a match for the life you want to have, not necessarily for the life you are living now. We will work together to create your vision for your life (Life Vision), which will act as a road map leading us to your perfect partner.
The Visionary List: A Dating Method That Works:
Now that you have your Life Vision, you need to list the kind of partner you are looking for who will help you reach that Vision. This is not simply a list of characteristics but more like designing something. This will be fun, but will also take real thought to create.
Using Your Visionary List – How to Work with The List to be Successful:
Now that you have a Visionary List, you will have to go out and date! We will discuss how to use your List while dating, including how to know quickly if someone is worth dating again and how to graciously and politely turn down a second or third date.
How Sex Impacts Finding the Right Person:
Since the dating period might take some time, we will go over how sex can make finding the right person more difficult and how you can get your needs met without compromising your search.
Success – What To Do Once You Have Met Your Perfect Match:
Getting over the fear of announcing you are ready to commit to someone and how to approach it in a smart, sensitive way.
If you would like to know more about the Visionary Dating process or would like free coaching in return for being part of my book, please contact me at: ingeniousone@mac.com

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